http://jncym.61bay.com/ jncym.61bay.com博客日记,记录他的成长历程 Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:29:06 +0800 http://jncym.61bay.com/rss2.asp writen by jncym 博客日记 zh-CN http://www.61bay.com/image/flag.gif http://jncym.61bay.com/ 144 50 http://www.61bay.com/d249758-jncym     第一，孩子越小，心灵越不设防，越容易受伤害。父母需要给予小心呵护。例如：多关心孩子内心的冷暖；多给他一些微笑和关怀的眼神；多给他一些理解和支持；常拥抱他，并说：“孩子，妈妈爱你。” 　　

    第二，正确对待孩子的学习成绩，或者说成败体验。要时刻让孩子感到父母“无条件的爱”。父母对他的任何努力都要给予鼓励，甚至允许孩子犯错误。家长不要只在孩子取得成绩的时候笑逐颜开，“好孩子、乖孩子”这样叫着，而在他成绩退步的时候，脸一下拉好长，让孩子感觉你爱的不是他，而是他的成绩。

    

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